The people who make excuses that things can not be done do not know what they are talking about. Lets say people say that they do not have time to start their own business. That is an excuse. An excuse is filled with a lie behind it. Take for instance the busy real estate broker who works 12-14 hours per day selling million dollar houses 7 days a week. He does not listen to anybody who does not have time. He makes the time to work his business by sacrificing his lunch hour and right after work the first hour he dedicated to his business even if it is 9:00 PM at night. That is how he answers the question as to how can he make the time to build his business to enjoy the life style with his family.
Losers are the people who are the ones who you have to avoid like the plague. They do not talk about thoughts and ideas. They have no topic in particular to speak about so therefore they talk about people to just get attention. If you listen to anything that they tell you they are going to rent space into your head. That does not do you any good because if you do not use your mind, you lose it and eventually your brain dies out from not getting new information into it. Rather read a good book because you learn something new and are exercising your mind. At some point someone will be talking about what you read or your can share that idea with someone else.
When someone keeps brining a topic over and over again to you constantly let them know that you will not speak to them anymore if they bring that subject up. If they are a true friend they will talk about something else, if not then avoid them like the plague!!
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Saturday, May 15, 2010
Sunday, May 9, 2010
Stop The Chatter In Your Mind Or Stay Behind.
Imagine 10 people talking over each other. That gives a big problem to what is going on around you. That does not have to be that way. Everyone that you know has woken up with 100 units of energy. Lets say you break a glass and that ruins your day. You give away 20 units of energy. Then you can not focus on getting to work in the morning and you hit someone in front of you. That is another 30 units. You have then 50 units left to concentrate on for whatever deadlines you have at your job. You don't get it done that day, you don't get it done the next day and before you know it you are fired. Damm this did not have to start. If you are giving anything that is bothering you any attention then you are giving that person or thing your power.
Focus on what you need to get to go to your results by following someone whos life you would like to have. Nobody elses. If coaches want to win their ball games by putting the right people in the line up or putting the best shooters and defenders on the team. So can you. Be selective as to who you want and just do it!!! You may be tired right now of hearing all this but once you take the action and hear excitement from the people that committ to winning and see them get results, boy you will get a lot of positive energy like you are cheering for the home team!!!!
Lawrence Bergfeld
Learn How To Think Critically
Lawrence Bergfeld
917-399-6207
lpbergfeld@gmail.com
Focus on what you need to get to go to your results by following someone whos life you would like to have. Nobody elses. If coaches want to win their ball games by putting the right people in the line up or putting the best shooters and defenders on the team. So can you. Be selective as to who you want and just do it!!! You may be tired right now of hearing all this but once you take the action and hear excitement from the people that committ to winning and see them get results, boy you will get a lot of positive energy like you are cheering for the home team!!!!
Lawrence Bergfeld
Learn How To Think Critically
Lawrence Bergfeld
917-399-6207
lpbergfeld@gmail.com
Make Decisions Now Or Stay Behind!!
You need to make decisions as soon as you have an idea or else you will stay behind. Lets say you do not have anything to write about. Just do it and begin writing. You have to go through the fact that you will look stupid at first. It does not make any sense to delay because doubt and fear and all the seven negative emotions are going to interfere with your life. You don't want that to happen. You want to get results.
So make an action plan. You want to pick a mentor who has done what you want to do. Take what you have from him and do the best you can within minutes of his teaching you. If you delay with that there is going to be another consequence. Remember back in school after a lecture? If you do not go over your notes within 24 hours then you will forget more than what you would do in two hours of the lecture. Immediately get started and just do it!!!
It is even more ridiculous to procrastinate because Jerry Seinfeld and Chris Rock bombed when they first started out. If they were able to deal with getting laughed at there is no reason why we shouldn't!!!
Lawrence Bergfeld
Learn How To Think Critically
Lawrence Bergfeld
917-399-6207
lpbergfeld@gmail.com
So make an action plan. You want to pick a mentor who has done what you want to do. Take what you have from him and do the best you can within minutes of his teaching you. If you delay with that there is going to be another consequence. Remember back in school after a lecture? If you do not go over your notes within 24 hours then you will forget more than what you would do in two hours of the lecture. Immediately get started and just do it!!!
It is even more ridiculous to procrastinate because Jerry Seinfeld and Chris Rock bombed when they first started out. If they were able to deal with getting laughed at there is no reason why we shouldn't!!!
Lawrence Bergfeld
Learn How To Think Critically
Lawrence Bergfeld
917-399-6207
lpbergfeld@gmail.com
Friday, February 19, 2010
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